sheep–moth:

slimedweeb:

sweet-and-sapphic:

cowboysuggest:

don’t base your personality on memes please don’t please for me develop actual interests even if it’s just something like pressing flowers or reading books please get a hobby that doesn’t have to do with memes please for humanities sake please i promise your life will immediately feel more whole and lively once you stop caring so much about memes and the internet yeehaw

Hey while we’re at it, maybe don’t base your personalities entirely off fandoms, either. Enjoy the company of people who don’t ingest the same media you do. Learn to talk about other things and appreciate people for being fun, polite, enthusiastic, generous, etc. Please, please, please learn to think of yourself and others in terms of qualities instead of strictly interests.

yeehaw

Don’t base your personality off of one thing in general. No, not because it’s “"cringey”“ (I hate cringe culture anyways) but because it’ll make it easier for you to interact with others and make friends if you have multiple interests!

For awhile, my only interest was psychology. And tbh in this small town I’m in, the only people interested in psychology were therapists. And you can’t hang out with your therapist.

I’ve yet to find a friend group but it’s a lot easier to talk to people now that my entire personality isn’t based around “the top 10 reasons why I hate Frued”.

(( this doesn’t mean it’s bad to have hyperfixations or special interests))